Sometimes my prayers are answered, most of them are for my family and friends. Maybe because I love them very much. Now, a few days ago I lead a prayer with my friends.. just a prayer before we go home. I prayed something for my friend that "please help her heart become soft" oh and sometimes I add a joke so they could laugh .."wash her heart with a SpongeBob." hahaha..
Last night (32311) she said that she doesn't want me to pray again because what i said last time was becoming real. And I told her, "if you really believe it then it will surely become true. Especially when you always think about it."
So if she really is becoming soft because of SpongeBob, then good for her. It's not good with a heart full of anger, jealousy, greed, selfish, etc. If you want people to like and love you back, you should do it to yourself first.